AITA or NOT

I (40F) have been married to my husband (48M) for 2.5 years. In April 2023, his adult son (now 25) moved in with my daughter (12F) and me. Then in August of that same year, his 17-year-old twins also moved in, along with my husband himself. So now it’s me,…

AITA for refusing to listen to my husband? I want to have a breast reduction surgery. I will not be asking him to spend any money on me. We both work and we put aside equal amount of money for private accounts for private savings and spendings so please do…